The Book

Phoenyx has been continuously collecting, experiencing, and compiling material for the book, "Relationship Anarchy: Liberating Love" (working title) since 2014, and is looking forward to getting the work published this year.

If you'd like to be notified with updates about the book, please send a message with your email address. In the meantime, if you'd like to learn more about RA, check out the links below.

RA Info

Relationship Anarchy is a philosophy and practice grounded in respect for autonomy, authentic co-willing, voluntary engagement, and anti-authoritarianism. It calls into question the conventional social norms, beliefs, and customs around relationships (including the notions of ownership, scarcity, and entitlement), allowing for conscious alignment of intentions with those we choose to relate to. RA transcends polyamory and romantic/sexual relationships, in general, to include ALL of our interpersonal relationships.

To read more about the philisophical foundations of RA, check out Phoenyx's main website.

You can find a link to the original Relationship Anarchy Manifesto as well as other informative resources on Relationship-Anarchy.com

There is lively discussion about the topic daily on the Relationship Anarchy global Facebook group.

MeetUp

Meetup Groups

If you're in the greater Portland area, check out the Relationship Anarchy Portland Meetup Group, where you can find talks, workshops and discussion groups! Phoenyx explores both the theory and practice of RA, covering topics like:

  • Forging more conscious, authentic relationships
  • Understanding autonomy, agency, and consent
  • The history and philisophical underpinnings of RA
  • RA in contrast to social/cultural norms
  • Managing assumptions, expectations, and "shoulds"
  • Identifying and communicating needs, desires, and boundaries
  • Embracing emotions, managing emotional pain/jealousy, and choosing conscious responses
  • RA and attachment / relating styles
  • ...and much more!

    If you're elsewhere in the world, you still may be able to find an RA Meetup group near you!

    Private Coaching

    If you're interested in private, one-on-one coaching, support, or reflection from Phoenyx, please send a message! Local and remote coaching are both possible.

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